Dessert Tables vs. Traditional Cake – Which is Right for You?

Dessert Tables vs. Traditional Cake – Which is Right for You?

Ah, the age-old wedding dessert debate – do you go for the classic elegance of a traditional wedding cake or mix things up with a dessert table brimming with tempting treats? If you're stuck deciding, don't worry—you're not alone! Both options can bring their own special magic to your wedding day, and the best choice really depends on your style, vision, and, of course, your sweet tooth.

So, let’s dig in and find your perfect match!

The Traditional Wedding Cake

There’s just something so romantic and timeless about a beautifully crafted wedding cake. Picture this: you're standing with your partner, cutting into layers of dreamy cake, with everyone cheering (or laughing if someone gets frosting on their nose!). It’s iconic and makes for gorgeous photos.

Pros:

• Iconic Moment: The classic cake-cutting tradition is a wedding staple.

• Wow Factor: A stunning cake can serve as a statement centrepiece.

• Flavour Variety: Multiple tiers mean you can pick several flavours to please different tastes.

• Easy Serving: Slices are neat, tidy, and straightforward to distribute.

Things to Consider:

• Limited Choices: Not everyone loves cake (hard to imagine, but true!).

• More Formal: If you’re after a relaxed, informal vibe, a traditional cake might feel a little too structured.

The Dessert Table

Imagine a spread filled with bite-sized treats, mini pastries, cupcakes, cookies, macarons, and more—all beautifully displayed to match your wedding theme. Dessert tables offer variety, visual impact, and plenty of flexibility.

Pros:

• Something for Everyone: Cater to all taste buds and dietary needs with diverse treats.

• Interactive and Fun: Guests love choosing their favourite goodies, which keeps energy high and encourages mingling.

• Casual Elegance: Perfect for laid-back celebrations or a grazing-style event.

Things to Consider:

• No Traditional Cake Moment: If you love classic traditions, you'll miss out on that cake-cutting photo op.

• Planning and Styling: More elements mean more planning—but that’s why you have experts (like me!) to help.

• Requires More Space: A dessert table typically needs a larger setup area than a single cake stand, so make sure your venue can accommodate it.

Why Not Have Both?

Here’s my favourite suggestion—why choose when you can have the best of both worlds? Many couples opt for a smaller, beautifully designed wedding cake (perfect for that romantic cake-cutting moment) paired with a curated dessert table. This combination allows you to enjoy tradition while also spoiling your guests with variety. Plus, a dessert table is a fantastic opportunity to showcase seasonal and locally sourced ingredients, creating a truly memorable and delicious experience for everyone involved.

All white Dessert table with inspiration taken from Portuguese and Somerset flavours.

Thinking Outside the Cake Box

If you’re someone who loves to do things differently, why not go totally outside the box? Here are a few creative alternatives that can be just as show-stopping:

• A Tower of Cheesecakes: Layers of creamy, rich cheesecake stacked like a traditional wedding cake—but even more indulgent.

• A Long, Flower-Covered Cake: Imagine a single, elegant cake running the entire length of the table, adorned with fresh flowers for a stunning visual impact.

• A Selection of Cakes: A variety of beautifully decorated cakes, each with different flavours, textures, and styles, allowing guests to pick their favourite.

• Family-Style Desserts: Think rustic fruit pies, seasonal crumbles, or even an interactive build-your-own shortcake bar—letting guests serve themselves for a relaxed, communal feel.

I absolutely love a challenge, so if you have a wild dessert idea in mind, let’s make it happen!

Multi layer fig, orange and roasted vanilla cheesecake - photo credit @Emmaseaney

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, there’s no wrong choice—just your choice. Consider what fits your style, venue, and personality best. Whether it's a jaw-dropping tiered cake, a stunning dessert spread, an unconventional twist, or a delightful combination of all three, make sure it reflects you and your love story.

Still undecided? Let's chat! I’d love to help you create the sweetest memories possible for your special day.

Happy planning and even happier tasting!